tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post6239527776829174830..comments2023-04-28T23:51:13.231+08:00Comments on That Nishiboy!: A Rant About My MotherNishihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01403570553004423943noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-6256023710910610502011-11-22T10:28:25.430+08:002011-11-22T10:28:25.430+08:00go read the other comments, mr anonymous.go read the other comments, mr anonymous.Nishihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01403570553004423943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-8140971966757964872011-11-22T02:27:14.009+08:002011-11-22T02:27:14.009+08:00Just based on this article. Your probably spoiled ...Just based on this article. Your probably spoiled alot by your Mom. When she's dead and your down hope that blackberry helps.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-18141261751418859352011-10-17T09:13:08.474+08:002011-10-17T09:13:08.474+08:00i had an ugly fight with my mother yesterday
has ...i had an ugly fight with my mother yesterday<br /><br />has something to do with trust issues<br /><br />i can say you're still lucky to have her as your momEwanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13789333502189449446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-68798512561349992542011-09-29T09:27:39.942+08:002011-09-29T09:27:39.942+08:00Hay Nishi, your story alone was quite entertaining...Hay Nishi, your story alone was quite entertaining ... but add the comments and well, it's hilarious. <br /><br />People really can't help but make quick judgement calls on situations they aren't fully aware of no? Perhaps it's because we think we always know better.<br /><br />I hope ... you and your mom are in better terms now. Remember it must not be easy on her too, to accept your being gay. It can be a long process and it can cause more hurts and pains along the way.<br /><br />Sometimes, I think we have to understand our loved ones more. To give more love, even when it's just easier to be angry.<br /><br />I hope I'm making sense. Hope to catch you sometime =)<br /><br />KaneKanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13948473232058321828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-70448463689496536942011-09-24T02:16:05.505+08:002011-09-24T02:16:05.505+08:00Yes, I'm waiting for OS v7.0, so I'll be p...Yes, I'm waiting for OS v7.0, so I'll be phoneless for a while.Ryanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04532838106665385403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-83359044219101921152011-09-21T15:47:12.216+08:002011-09-21T15:47:12.216+08:00Ah well, I understand that it would appear that wa...Ah well, I understand that it would appear that way based on what I wrote. But really, it's not the money. Money was never an issue between me and my mother. I went on vacation once and she volunteered to give me pocket money. When I told her that my laptop was broken, she immediately asked me how much I needed to have it fixed (I didn't take that offer, my laptop is still broken). It's really the sexuality.<br /><br />But a paypal account does sound good. I'm going to look into it.Nishihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01403570553004423943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-31469623052779166362011-09-21T14:34:42.040+08:002011-09-21T14:34:42.040+08:00Let's not confuse the issue here. The issue is...Let's not confuse the issue here. The issue is that borrowing money from people sucks and is cause for heightened feelings and stress. Your sexuality really has nothing to do with this. It's the money. It's always the money. Never forget that.<br /><br />I get hit up for money quite a bit from friends here in the states and it is always the most god-awful awkward situation ever. It never gets better.<br /><br />I do think you should look into getting a paypal account. It's free and it's easy to transfer money that way. Just my two cents.Michael Offutt, Phantom Readerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10557969104886174930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-12729126179329216832011-09-19T16:16:10.615+08:002011-09-19T16:16:10.615+08:00@anonymous:
"you borrow money because you n...@anonymous: <br /><br />"you borrow money because you need it for your finances then you borrow again to buy a blackberry..."<br /><br />i needed money because i changed jobs recently and i didn't earn much in my new company last payday. next payday, i'll be able to start paying both my mom and bryan. i'll probably even be able to pay my mom in full.<br /><br /><br />"i think your mom's concern is justified, you dont know how to manage your life."<br /><br />i started living away from home when i was 13 years old. if i didn't know how to manage my life, i'd be a goner by now. sure, i made (and still make) mistakes, but come on, who doesn't? i'm doing my best. why is that the part that's so hard to see?<br /><br /><br />"and you rant about her to other peoople."<br /><br />read the comments above. those other people can relate to what i posted. my mom did not get any haters from this post. <br /><br /><br />"she's your mom, she bore you for 9 months and took care of you, she is still trying to take care of you, the least you could do in not give her any heart ache. "<br /><br />i'm extremely grateful that she gave me my life and that she guided me during its first years. but she can't keep trying to take care of me. she has to trust me to make my own decisions.<br /><br />i decided to embrace my sexuality. i know she wants me to go straight, but that's not her choice to make. if it breaks her heart that i chose differently, then there's nothing i can do about it but try to reassure her, which is what i've been trying to do ever since i came out to her five years ago. but she's blind to everything i've accomplished so far. all she sees is that her son is gay. that's what breaks MY heart.Nishihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01403570553004423943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-36718212063134927102011-09-19T15:42:50.438+08:002011-09-19T15:42:50.438+08:00@ryan: bili ka ulit ng bb.
@cupcake: haha. kelang...@ryan: bili ka ulit ng bb.<br /><br />@cupcake: haha. kelangan ko ng lalagyan nung inissue na sim. thanks kay baby sa credit card.<br /><br />@vivi: hay... eh kasi ilang beses na naming napagtalunan to eh. napag-usapan na namin to nang harap-harapan. pero paulit-ulit pa din.Nishihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01403570553004423943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-33027144902431897762011-09-19T15:39:00.137+08:002011-09-19T15:39:00.137+08:00@gb: dm mo pa din sakin pin. mo. =P and yeah, it&#...@gb: dm mo pa din sakin pin. mo. =P and yeah, it's heartbreaking when our parents judge us.<br /><br />@pilyo: yan kasi judgemental ka. haha. pero thanks, bumawi ka naman nang bonggang bongga nung weekend.Nishihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01403570553004423943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-30002526339362367582011-09-18T17:12:14.628+08:002011-09-18T17:12:14.628+08:00Ayyyy! Kaloka si mother... Actually ako din... Gan...Ayyyy! Kaloka si mother... Actually ako din... Ganun siguro talaga ang reactions ng mga mudra natin... =) Pero lagi ko syang ina-assure na hindi ako gumagastos sa lalaki... And mas maganda sana kung napag-usapan nyo sa call... Kasi iba talaga minsan ang tono sa text... Mas prone for misinterpretation... =)Vitori Vitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15711098618148497108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-29435562136911195552011-09-17T21:32:38.218+08:002011-09-17T21:32:38.218+08:00yay! new phone lumipat lang ng company. hahaha! :D...yay! new phone lumipat lang ng company. hahaha! :Djenbajarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08616495079907421737noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-35381448093822873932011-09-17T18:08:41.603+08:002011-09-17T18:08:41.603+08:00I will no longer comment about your mother so let ...I will no longer comment about your mother so let me shift my attention to your phone instead---good choice.Ryanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04532838106665385403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-51103891209198770522011-09-17T13:01:55.703+08:002011-09-17T13:01:55.703+08:00you borrow money because you need it for your fina...you borrow money because you need it for your finances then you borrow again to buy a blackberry... i think your mom's concern is justified, you dont know how to manage your life. and you rant about her to other peoople. she's your mom, she bore you for 9 months and took care of you, she is still trying to take care of you, the least you could do in not give her any heart ache.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-929276458318467042011-09-16T18:48:58.064+08:002011-09-16T18:48:58.064+08:00bigla naman akong nakunsensya. totoo pala ang sina...bigla naman akong nakunsensya. totoo pala ang sinabi mong may problema ka sa finances, akala ko uma-aura ka lang tulad ni bunso. Sana pala inalok kita ng pahiramin muna, para di na kau nagkasagutan ni mudang. Alam ko kung bakit ka nangutang... haaays.<br /><br />cge bawi sau ang mga dolls, lalo na si Kate. hahahahaha.RainDarwinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05631710060053245171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-21629642936513160992011-09-16T18:14:35.820+08:002011-09-16T18:14:35.820+08:00Aw. Had I known this I should have DMed you my BBM...Aw. Had I known this I should have DMed you my BBM pin. Tsk. Grabeha nga away bai, pano na lang ako pag nalaman ng nanay ko? Baka mas malala pa siya sa mama mo. :|<br />Even our parents judge us. Oh well, life.zekehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08948881749715167279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-85442194156669308192011-09-16T17:39:51.596+08:002011-09-16T17:39:51.596+08:00@vajarl: gay boy problems indeed. we still can'...@vajarl: gay boy problems indeed. we still can't take the "queen" title away from our moms. lol.<br /><br />@mugen: kaya ayokong naiistress! haha.<br /><br />@ronnie: ah well, i can't compromise on this. it's all or nothing. or more like all or all.Nishihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01403570553004423943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-24417740432355651122011-09-16T17:36:27.157+08:002011-09-16T17:36:27.157+08:00@rah: hay, she'll come around eventually. i ho...@rah: hay, she'll come around eventually. i hope. and yeah, i've been playing with this new toy for the last three days. haha. katuwa.<br /><br />@kaloy: email me and i'll give you my bb pin. hehe.<br /><br />@anon: i have a new toy to play with so yes, it made me feel a lot better. you know, kids and their toys.<br /><br />@city: this is why i'm not that fond of soap operas. wala silang sinabi sa nanay ko. haha.Nishihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01403570553004423943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-32216027204576828072011-09-16T17:30:25.765+08:002011-09-16T17:30:25.765+08:00Lol @ Citybuoy's "peg".
Ang mga mud...Lol @ Citybuoy's "peg".<br /><br />Ang mga mudra minsan mas drama queen pa sa lahat ng mga Primetime Bida Queens lol. Kidding aside, I really feel for you sa part na nagmi-"meet me halfway" kayo ni Mother kahit mahirap. Sometimes, I thought of compromising na lang para maayos man ang dapat maayos.Ronniehttp://theronnieshow.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-82219099199935398662011-09-16T12:12:05.647+08:002011-09-16T12:12:05.647+08:00Lesson Learned: Make sure you have more money tha...Lesson Learned: Make sure you have more money than your mother. Lol.<br /><br />Grabe ka pala ma-istress, gumagastos!! Haha.Mugenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12219198460080059781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-58871289997038442672011-09-16T10:57:33.393+08:002011-09-16T10:57:33.393+08:00And I thought I was the only one with an insanely ...And I thought I was the only one with an insanely melodramatic Mom. I swear I could hear my mother's voice when I was reading your mom's messages. Gay boy problems.Vajarlhttp://vajarlmetdracula.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-75252921938947698472011-09-16T09:45:13.669+08:002011-09-16T09:45:13.669+08:00Oh wow. I did not see that ending coming. lol
Any...Oh wow. I did not see that ending coming. lol<br /><br />Anyway, here's my worthless two cents: you and your mom are more alike than it seems. You both just really want to be heard. If i remember right, relatively new to sa kaniya. Di pa niya siguro alam how it works these days. Iba naman kasi ang peg ng mga bading in her time. So I guess kaya ganun naisip niya. Be happy that she's trying to understand. She really needs you so she can see what its like these days and when you do, malay mo she'll loosen up.<br /><br />Plus you gotta at least appreciate the drama. Levelings!! :)citybuoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00750180276675423002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-87889256542611643342011-09-16T09:20:24.213+08:002011-09-16T09:20:24.213+08:00and that phone added to your liabilities.does it m...and that phone added to your liabilities.does it make you feel better?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-84276632731537084302011-09-16T09:11:39.885+08:002011-09-16T09:11:39.885+08:00woah - bummer... but hey, moms are supposed to be ...woah - bummer... but hey, moms are supposed to be like that - control freaks, manipulative and overly suspicious. you're both too alike it hurts to admit it. whats your BB pin? hehe :)kaloyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00094375662205030638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233165690458431458.post-80241414548055770072011-09-16T09:03:21.219+08:002011-09-16T09:03:21.219+08:00Nagaalala lang siguro yung nanay mo. May mom's...Nagaalala lang siguro yung nanay mo. May mom's instincts siya although maaring hindi yon palaging tama. Gusto niya lang mapalagay ang loob niya, besides, hindi madaling maglabas ng malaking pera. <br /><br />Pero, look at her intention, it is still good. Although I think hindi ka basta basta dapat pagbintangan.<br /><br />Ganong talaga ang mga nanay minsan, marami din silang insecurities, kaya nagiging emotional sila.<br /><br />Sana maayos na ang problema niyo. Huwag niyo na patagalin, kasi dadamdamin talaga niya yon.<br /><br />***<br />nice phone, ganyan din ang phone ko, and I am very satisfied sa performance. Pati pics maganda, hindi ko na kailangan dalhin yung DSLR ko. <br /><br />:)Rahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13058800651542295761noreply@blogger.com